Pray: Break the Chains - Experiencing the Freedom of Forgivness

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Are you carrying the weight of unforgiveness in your life? Pastor John Mark reveals how unconfessed sin and harbored resentment can chain us to guilt and bitterness, draining our emotional and spiritual vitality. Through the Lord's Prayer, he unpacks Jesus' profound teaching that links receiving God's forgiveness with extending it to others. Using compelling research and the practical REACH model (Recall, Empathize, Altruistic gift, Commit, Hold on), this message offers hope and practical steps for breaking free from unforgiveness. Whether you're struggling with past hurts or seeking deeper spiritual freedom, discover how forgiveness sets both the forgiver and forgiven free. Don't miss this transformative message about God's grace and healing power.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could instantly master any skill in the world, what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark notes that heavy hearts often stem from what we're holding inside rather than from what happened to us. How does holding onto unforgiveness affect our mental, physical, and spiritual well-being?

• The sermon cites research showing that forgiveness reduces stress, anxiety, depression, and improves relationships and overall life satisfaction

• What unresolved hurt or unforgiveness might you be holding onto that is weighing you down emotionally or spiritually?

Looking at Psalm 32:3-5, what are the consequences of keeping silent about our sins versus confessing them to God?

• The passage describes how unconfessed sin caused physical and emotional drain, while confession brought God's forgiveness and relief

• When have you experienced the weight of unconfessed sin and the freedom that came with confession?

The sermon presents the REACH model for learning to forgive (Recall, Empathize, Altruistic gift, Commit, Hold on). Which of these steps do you think is most challenging and why?

• The sermon explains this as a research-backed method for learning to forgive, even when it feels impossible

• Which step in the REACH model could help you most with a specific situation where you're struggling to forgive?

How does the parable of the unforgiving servant (Matthew 18) illustrate the danger of receiving grace but not extending it to others?

• The sermon describes how the servant received forgiveness for a huge debt but refused to forgive someone else's small debt

• In what ways might you be like the unforgiving servant, having received God's forgiveness but struggling to extend it to others?

Pastor John Mark says, 'forgiveness must be walked out, not just talked out.' What does this mean practically in daily life?

• The sermon emphasizes that just talking about or reading about forgiveness isn't enough - it requires active implementation

• What specific actions could you take this week to 'walk out' forgiveness in a situation you're facing?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any prayer requests from the group.

• Pray for strength to release any lingering unforgiveness in our hearts.

• Seek God's help to confess sins and experience the fullness of forgiveness.

• Request guidance in building relationships based on kindness and compassion.

• Ask for the courage to extend forgiveness to others as we have been forgiven.

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Pray: Trust God Daily - Learning to Depend on Your Father

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What if trusting God daily could transform your anxious thoughts into peace? Through the powerful imagery of manna and quail in the wilderness, Pastor John Mark reveals how God provides exactly what we need each day—no more, no less. Drawing from the Lord's Prayer's "daily bread," he shares practical ways to replace worry with trust, offering hope for those struggling with prayer. Whether you're facing financial stress, relationship challenges, or health concerns, discover how to experience God's daily provision and peace. Don't miss this encouraging message about moving from panic prayers to daily dependence on our loving Father.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could have any animal in the world as a pet, realistic or not, what would it be and why? And how would your everyday life change with this pet?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark mentioned that prayer is often rated as the most challenging spiritual discipline, especially for men. Why do you think people find it difficult to pray, and what barriers have you personally experienced in developing a consistent prayer life?

• The sermon opened by discussing how prayer is typically at the bottom of the list when people rate spiritual disciplines like worship, Bible reading, and scripture memorization.

• What specific steps could you take this week to make prayer feel more natural and less like a performance?

The sermon discusses how Jesus taught about daily bread in Matthew 6, emphasizing both 'today' and 'daily.' How might focusing on daily needs rather than future worries change your approach to prayer and trust in God?

• Jesus used a 'daily double' emphasizing both 'today' and 'daily' when teaching about asking for daily bread, suggesting special importance in daily dependence.

• What current worries about the future could you transform into daily prayers of trust?

The sermon referenced Exodus 16 and the story of manna and quail. How does God's provision of exactly enough for each day challenge our modern tendency to want security and abundance far into the future?

• God provided manna each morning and quail each evening, but the Israelites could only gather enough for one day at a time.

• In what areas of your life do you find it hardest to trust God's daily provision?

Pastor John Mark suggested ending each day with gratitude instead of regret. How might this practice impact your spiritual and emotional well-being?

• The sermon emphasized that God deals in today, not tomorrow, and encouraged focusing on daily gratitude rather than future concerns.

• What three things from today could you express gratitude for right now?

The sermon discussed turning 'worry into prayer immediately.' What practical difference do you see between worrying about something and praying about it?

• Jesus taught in Matthew 6 that worry is unproductive and cannot add a single hour to your life, while prayer connects us to God's provision.

• What is your typical first response to worry, and how could you develop the habit of turning to prayer instead?

Prayer 🙏

• Start by sharing any prayer requests from the group members.

• Ask God to help you trust Him with your daily needs.

• Pray for strength to turn worries into prayers throughout the day.

• Seek guidance to live with a daily dependence on God and see His provisions one day at a time.

• Request peace and joy in your heart, replacing anxiety where it tries to creep in.

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Pray: Inviting God’s Kingdom into Your Everyday Life

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Have you ever felt stuck between wanting God's will and clinging to your own? Pastor John Mark tackles this tension through a fresh look at the Lord's Prayer, revealing how "Your will be done" transforms from our hardest prayer to our greatest comfort. Through compelling research on prayer's health benefits and vivid examples like Daniel in the lions' den, he shows how surrendering to God's plan brings unexpected peace. Whether facing health challenges, relationship struggles, or daily uncertainties, this message offers practical wisdom for moving from "God, get me out" to "God, get me through." Don't miss this encouraging guide to finding strength in submission and purpose in life's overwhelming moments.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could travel anywhere in the world for a week-long vacation, where would you go and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark discusses how direction is more important than desire in determining destiny. How have you seen this play out in your own spiritual journey?

• He uses the example of desiring to be in shape but walking towards the Oreos, showing how our actions (direction) matter more than our wishes (desires)

• What specific directions in your life need to change to align with your desired spiritual destiny?

The sermon emphasizes praying for 'God to get you through' rather than 'God to get you out' of difficult situations. Why is this distinction important?

• He uses the example of Daniel in the lions' den, who didn't pray to avoid the situation but trusted God through it

• What current situation are you facing where you might need to shift from praying 'get me out' to 'get me through'?

Based on Romans 8:15 discussed in the sermon, how should understanding our position as children of God (rather than slaves) change our approach to prayer?

• Pastor explains we aren't praying as peasants begging for relief, but as sons and daughters with 'daddy level trust.'

• In what ways do you sometimes approach God more like a slave than a child, and how can you change this mindset?

The sermon discusses praying for God's agenda rather than our preferences. What makes this aspect of prayer particularly challenging?

• He mentions how easy it is to pray 'Our Father' and 'Give us daily bread' but how difficult it is to truly pray 'Your will be done.'

• What personal preferences are you currently struggling to surrender to God's agenda?

How does the ACTS prayer method (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication) help maintain a God-centered rather than self-centered prayer life?

• The sermon mentions how this method puts God first through adoration before moving to personal requests

• Which aspect of the ACTS prayer method do you tend to rush through or skip, and why might that be significant?

Prayer 🙏

Begin by asking if anyone has specific prayer requests:

• Ask God to help us remember that prayer is about building a relationship, not just seeking relief from troubles.

• Pray for the courage to trust God's direction even when it is challenging or unexpected.

• Seek guidance in aligning our desires with God's will to bring about His purpose in our lives.

• Request strength and endurance to carry through earthly pressures with heavenly wisdom.

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Pray: Start With God - Redisovering Your Heavenly Father

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Have you ever felt tongue-tied when trying to talk to God? Pastor John Mark launches an enlightening series on prayer with a refreshing message: you don't have to be perfect at it. Drawing from the Lord's Prayer, he reveals how prayer isn't about impressive words or public performance—it's about a relationship with a loving Father. Through engaging research and personal honesty about his own prayer journey, Pastor John Mark shows how this divine conversation can reduce anxiety, extend life, and transform our daily experience. Whether you're a prayer warrior or prayer rookie, this message offers practical wisdom for connecting with God. Don't miss this chance to revolutionize your prayer life!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could pick a year to relive because of some incredible moment or experience, which year would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark mentions that only 40% of Americans say they pray daily, with women being more likely to pray than men. Why do you think there is such a gap in prayer habits, and what might be some barriers that prevent people from praying regularly?

• According to the sermon, about 40% of Americans pray daily, with 55% of women saying they pray at least once a day compared to a lower percentage for men.

• What personal barriers have you experienced in developing a consistent prayer life?

The sermon emphasizes that the Lord's Prayer contains no personal pronouns (I, me, my) but instead uses collective words (our, us, we). How does this change your perspective on prayer and its purpose?

• Pastor John Mark points out that Jesus didn't teach his disciples to pray with personal pronouns, but instead taught them to pray with a corporate attitude, recognizing others around the world who are also praying.

• How might your prayers change if you focused more on collective needs rather than just personal requests?

In Matthew 6:5-7, Jesus warns against praying like hypocrites who pray to be seen by others. How can we ensure our prayers are authentic conversations with God rather than performances for others?

• The sermon states that 'if your prayer requires a spotlight and a microphone, that's not a prayer, that's a recital.'

• When have you felt pressure to pray 'perfectly' in front of others, and how can you overcome this pressure?

The sermon describes prayer as starting with a relationship rather than a ritual. How does viewing God as 'Father' rather than just a distant deity impact the way we approach prayer?

• Pastor John Mark explains that Jesus revolutionized the concept of God as Father, referring to Him as Father over 65 times in the Gospels, making it personal rather than just national.

• What aspects of your relationship with your earthly father (positive or negative) might influence how you view and approach God as Father?

The sermon discusses the structure of the Lord's Prayer, beginning with God (relationship, worship, guardianship, lordship) before moving to personal needs. Why is this order significant?

• The sermon explains that the prayer hierarchy starts with focusing on God and others before addressing personal needs, similar to the structure of the Ten Commandments.

• How might reordering your prayers to focus first on who God is, rather than what you need, change your prayer experience?

Prayer 🙏

Before we conclude, do you know if anyone has prayer requests they'd like to share?

• Ask God to strengthen our relationship with Him through prayer.

• Pray for the courage to communicate openly with God, just like a loving Father.

• Request guidance in prioritizing God's kingdom and will in our daily lives.

• Seek support in making our prayers about community and others, not just ourselves.

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On Mission: The Power of a Thankful Heart

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Ever wonder how gratitude could transform your life? In this powerful message, Pastor John Mark reveals the scientifically-proven benefits of thankfulness—from improved physical health to stronger relationships. Drawing from Harvard research and timeless biblical wisdom, he shows how cultivating gratitude rewires our brains for positivity and resilience. Through Daniel's inspiring example of maintaining thankfulness despite persecution, we learn how grateful hearts see God's goodness in every situation. Don't miss this game-changing message that will equip you with practical ways to develop an "attitude of gratitude" that can revolutionize your relationships, health, and spiritual life. Watch now to discover the incredible power of a thankful heart!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could instantly become an expert at something (besides your job), what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark discussed how scientific research shows gratitude improves physical health. How can understanding the scientific benefits of gratitude help strengthen our spiritual practice of thanksgiving?

• The sermon referenced Harvard Medical School research showing grateful people report fewer aches and pains, better sleep, and improved overall well-being.

• What physical or emotional benefits have you personally experienced when practicing gratitude regularly?

Looking at Daniel 6:10, what can we learn from Daniel's response to continue giving thanks even in the face of severe consequences?

• Daniel maintained his practice of praying and giving thanks three times daily, even when it became illegal and punishable by death in the lions' den.

• When have you found it particularly challenging to maintain an attitude of gratitude during difficult circumstances?

The sermon discussed how gratitude can be 'multidirectional and multidimensional.' What are some practical ways we can express gratitude in different directions (up, down, forward, backward, etc.)?

• Pastor John Mark explained we should look up to God, down at our foundation, ahead to our future, behind at God's faithfulness, and around at God's people.

• Which direction of gratitude do you find most challenging to practice consistently and why?

How does expressing gratitude impact our relationships with others, according to both the research and biblical principles shared in the sermon?

• Research showed gratitude increases trust, strengthens relationship resilience, and rewires our brains toward connection rather than disconnection.

• What specific relationship in your life could benefit from more expressed gratitude this week?

Looking at the story of the ten lepers in Luke 17, why do you think only one returned to thank Jesus, and what lessons can we learn from this about expressing gratitude?

• Out of ten lepers who were healed, only one returned to thank Jesus, causing Jesus to ask 'Where are the other nine?'

• In what areas of your life might you be taking God's blessings for granted without expressing proper thanksgiving?

Prayer 🙏

• Begin by sharing any personal prayer requests within the group.
• Ask God to help us exhibit gratitude more frequently throughout our week.
• Pray for strength to find thankfulness in challenging circumstances.
• Seek guidance in using gratitude to improve relationships and mental well-being.

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On Mission: The Jesus Way

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Have you ever wondered if your brokenness could become someone's breakthrough? Like the Samaritan woman who transformed from hiding her past to boldly sharing her testimony, Pastor John Mark reveals that missions isn't about perfect people but about surrendered hearts. Through powerful examples from Jerusalem to the ends of the earth, he shows how Cottonwood Creek actively supports over 26 local ministries, multiple church plants, and missionaries in 160+ countries. Whether it's building homes in the Rio Grande Valley or reaching college campuses, this message inspires us all to say "yes" to God's mission. Don't miss this compelling call to move from spectator to participant in God's global work!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could have dinner with any fictional character from movies or books, who would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

In Matthew 28, Jesus gives the Great Commission. Why does Pastor John Mark emphasize that this is a command to be obeyed rather than a suggestion to consider?

• The sermon references Hudson Taylor's quote that 'the Great Commission is not an option to be considered, it is a command to be obeyed' and explains how Jesus gave authority and clear direction to go make disciples

• How does viewing the Great Commission as a command rather than a suggestion change how you approach sharing your faith?

How does the story of Isaiah's encounter with God in Isaiah 6:5-7 demonstrate the proper heart attitude for someone wanting to be on mission?

• The sermon describes how Isaiah first acknowledged his own sinfulness ('unclean lips') before God, received forgiveness, and then responded with 'Here I am, send me.'

• What areas of your life might need to be surrendered before you can effectively serve on God's mission?

The sermon describes missions as having three 'dominoes' - Jerusalem (local), Judea/Samaria (national), and the ends of the earth (international). Why is it important for churches to be involved at all three levels?

• Pastor John Mark detailed various ministry efforts at each level, from local food banks to national church plants to international missionaries

• Which of these three areas do you feel most called to serve in, and why?

How does the example of the Macedonian churches in 2 Corinthians 8 challenge our perspective on giving to missions during difficult times?

• The sermon highlighted how these churches gave generously despite their extreme poverty and severe trials, even pleading for the privilege to give

• What prevents you from being more generous in supporting missions, and how might the Macedonian churches' example inspire you to overcome those obstacles?

What can we learn from the woman at the well about how ordinary conversations can become mission opportunities?

• The sermon describes how Jesus didn't need a pulpit or microphone, just a conversation, and how the woman's simple invitation to 'come and see' led many in her town to believe

• What simple opportunities for spiritual conversations might you be missing in your daily life?

Prayer 🙏

Please take a moment to share any prayer requests you have.

• Ask God for a heart that is always willing to surrender to His will, just like Isaiah.

• Pray for the strength to live the Great Commission in our daily lives, at work and home.

• Seek guidance on how you can contribute to local and global missions within your means.

• Request courage to share your story of transformation with others as the Samaritan woman did.

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Rooted: Rooted in Wisdom - Managing Your Money God’s Way

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Has money taken control of your life? Pastor John Mark tackles this universal struggle with refreshing candor, revealing that 57% of Americans live paycheck-to-paycheck—regardless of income. Drawing from Solomon's wisdom and Jesus's teachings, he unpacks God's blueprint for financial freedom through the powerful "10-10-80 principle": giving the first 10% to God, saving 10% for yourself, and living on the remaining 80%. Discover how managing money God's way leads to joy and contentment while supporting kingdom work, such as Cottonwood Creek's upcoming Fall Festival. Don't miss this practical message that could transform your relationship with money and deepen your walk with God!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only use a backpack or a pull-behind travel suitcase for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

According to the sermon, why does the Bible talk about money more than almost any other topic? What does this tell us about the importance of how we handle our finances?

• Pastor John Mark mentioned that there are between 2300 - 2350 verses in the Bible about money, wealth, and possessions. Jesus spoke more about money than heaven and hell combined.

• How much time do you spend thinking about money compared to other aspects of your spiritual life?

How does the 10-10-80 principle work, and why might this be a helpful framework for managing money God's way?

• The sermon explained that the first 10% goes to God (tithe), the second 10% goes to savings, and the remaining 80% is for living expenses.

• What would need to change in your current financial habits to implement the 10-10-80 principle?

In Luke 12:15-21, Jesus tells the parable of the rich fool. What was the rich man's fundamental mistake, and why did God call him a fool?

• The sermon emphasized that Jesus didn't condemn the man's wealth, but rather his failure to be rich toward God and his complete focus on earthly possessions.

• What steps can you take to ensure you're being 'rich toward God' while also managing your earthly resources?

How does the ant's behavior in Proverbs 6:6-8 provide a model for financial wisdom?

• The sermon described how ants work diligently and store up food in summer without needing a commander, preparing for winter ahead of time.

• What “winters” should you be preparing for in your life, and how can you start preparing now?

According to the sermon, what's the relationship between tithing and joy? Why might generous givers report being more content?

• The sermon referenced George Barna's research showing that Christians who tithe 10%+ are twice as likely to describe their lives as joyful and content compared to those who give less than 2%.

• How has your level of generosity affected your personal contentment and joy?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any personal or family prayer requests.

• Pray for wisdom in managing finances according to God's principles.

• Ask God to cultivate a heart of generosity and gratitude.

• Seek guidance to apply the sermon lessons on work and wealth in daily life.

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Rooted: Rooted with Purpose - Finding Meaning in Your Work

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Have you ever wondered if your daily work truly matters to God? In this powerful message from the Rooted series, Pastor John Mark reveals how every job—from plumber to pastor—holds sacred significance in God's eyes. Drawing from Genesis to Paul's letters, he shows that work isn't a punishment but a divine privilege, designed before sin entered the world. Whether you're feeling stuck in your career or seeking deeper purpose, this message unpacks how to transform your workplace into a space for worship. Don't miss this encouraging reminder that your Monday-to-Friday work is just as holy as Sunday worship—discover how to find meaning and divine purpose in whatever you do!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you had only to use 1 form of transportation for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark emphasized that work was not a punishment for sin but was established by God before sin entered the world. How does this perspective change the way we might view our daily work?

• In Genesis 2:15, God put Adam in the garden to work it and take care of it before sin entered the world, showing work was always part of God's plan.

• What aspects of your current job can you reframe as a God-given privilege rather than a burden?

The sermon discussed how every job is sacred and just as important as pastoral work in God's eyes. Why is this concept important for Christians to understand?

• Pastor John Mark referenced Martin Luther's quote that 'the works of monks and priests do not differ one whit in the sight of God from the works of the rustic laborer in the field.'

• How might viewing your work as equally sacred to pastoral work change your approach to your daily tasks?

According to Colossians 3:23, we should work as if working for the Lord. What practical differences might this make in how we approach our work?

• The sermon emphasized that Jesus is our ultimate boss, regardless of our earthly supervisors.

• What specific aspects of your work behavior might change if you consciously viewed Jesus as your direct supervisor?

The sermon discussed the rhythm of work and worship (six days’ work, one day rest). How can we maintain this balance in today's fast-paced world?

• Pastor John Mark referenced God's pattern in Genesis of working six days and resting on the seventh, making it holy.

• What practical steps could you take better to honor both work and rest in your weekly schedule?

How can we transform our workplace into a place of worship while maintaining professional boundaries?

• The sermon stated that 'when your work is seen as a place of worship, every cubicle becomes a church.'

• What are some specific ways you could demonstrate your faith through your work quality and behavior without explicitly preaching?

Prayer 🙏

• Begin by asking for any prayer requests from the group.

• Ask God to help you find purpose and meaning in your work.

• Pray for strength to balance work and worship effectively.

• Request guidance to see your career as a calling from God.

• Seek God's wisdom and encouragement for those looking for jobs or transitioning in their careers.

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Rooted: Rooted in Community - Don’t Do Life Alone

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Have you ever wondered why church attendance consistently correlates with greater happiness—regardless of political views or background? Pastor John Mark unpacks compelling research showing churchgoers are "significantly more likely to be very happy," especially those ages 25-45. Through Acts 2, he reveals how the early church's devotion to teaching, togetherness, generosity, and worship created a thriving community that changed lives. Whether you're seeking purpose or need a weekly reset in an unstable world, this message shows how being rooted in church provides the spiritual nourishment and relationships we all need. Join us to discover why Christians are naturally drawn to church like "campers to a fire."

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could have an unlimited supply of one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor mentioned that studies show people who regularly attend church are statistically happier across all political spectrums. Why do you think church attendance contributes to greater happiness?

• Recent data from September 2025 showed that highly active religious people are significantly more likely to be very happy compared to those who are non-religious, regardless of political affiliation.

• How has being part of a church community impacted your own sense of wellbeing and happiness?

The sermon emphasized that 'just as a camper is drawn to the fire, a Christian ought to be drawn to the church.' What makes church attendance so vital for spiritual growth?

• The pastor explained how church provides a weekly reset from worldly messages and offers Biblical truth, fellowship, and encouragement.

• What specific aspects of church attendance help you stay 'spiritually warm' and connected to God?

How does the concept of being 'rooted' in a church community help Christians stand strong in an unstable world?

• The sermon compared spiritual strength to a tree's roots, explaining that trees don't withstand storms because of a roof over their head but because of roots in the ground.

• In what ways has being connected to a church community helped you weather difficult seasons in your life?

The sermon discussed the importance of 'spurring one another on toward love and good deeds' (Hebrews 10:24-25). What are some practical ways church members can encourage and motivate each other?

• The pastor shared examples of church ministries, cancer support bags, and missionary support as ways the church spurs people toward love and good deeds.

• What is one specific way you could encourage or spur on another believer this week?

According to Acts 2:42-47, what were the key activities and characteristics of the early church, and why were these elements so crucial for building a strong community of believers?

• The sermon discussed how the early church was devoted to the apostles' teaching, fellowship, breaking bread, and prayer. They were together, shared everything in common, and met daily.

• Which of these early church practices do you find most challenging to maintain in your own life, and what steps could you take to strengthen that area?

Prayer 🙏

Before we close, let's take a moment to share any personal prayer requests. Then, let's focus our prayer time on these key points:

• Ask God for strength to remain rooted in our faith despite the uncertainties of the world.

• Pray for the ability to support and encourage one another as a church community.

• Seek God's guidance in applying His teachings to our daily lives, helping us to grow spiritually.

• Request wisdom to honor God with our bodies, relationships, and commitments to the church.

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Rooted: Rooted in Peace - Winning the Battle in Your Mind

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Have you ever wondered how to stay anchored when the world feels like it's spinning out of control? Pastor John Mark delivers a powerful message on winning the battle of the mind in today's unstable times. Drawing from compelling research showing skyrocketing anxiety rates since 2010, he explores how social media and cultural shifts have impacted our mental well-being. Through Romans 12:2, he reveals God's blueprint for transforming our minds—not conforming to the world's patterns but being renewed through biblical truth. This timely message offers practical steps for finding peace and purpose, while courageously standing firm in God's unchanging truth. Don't miss this essential guide to staying rooted in Christ when everything else seems to be shifting sand.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is one moment from this past week that made you feel grateful or hopeful, despite any challenges you faced?

Discussion Questions 💬

Romans 12:2 talks about not conforming to the pattern of this world but being transformed by the renewing of your mind. What are some practical ways we can renew our minds daily in today's digital age?

• Pastor John Mark discussed how our minds, like clothes, get dirty and need regular cleaning. He emphasized how the patterns of this world, especially through social media and constant connectivity, can negatively impact our thinking.

• What specific patterns of this world do you find yourself conforming to most often, and what steps can you take to transform those areas?

The sermon highlighted the significant increase in anxiety and depression since 2010, particularly among young people. How can we, as Christians, support one another in maintaining mental health while staying engaged with technology?

• The sermon showed statistics about the rise in anxiety and depression correlating with the introduction of social media features like likes, shares, and front-facing cameras.

• In what ways has social media affected your own mental well-being, and what boundaries have you found helpful?

Pastor John Mark emphasized the importance of telling the truth even when it's uncomfortable. How can we balance speaking biblical truth with showing Christ-like love in today's polarized society?

• The sermon compared truth to medicine - bitter going down but healing later, while lies are like candy - sweet to taste but ultimately harmful.

• When have you struggled with speaking truth in love, and what did you learn from that experience?

Of the seven principles for happiness mentioned in the sermon (kindness, social connections, savoring experiences, focusing on positive, gratitude, physical activity, and prayer), which do you think our society tends to neglect most and why?

• The sermon referenced a book by an agnostic professor whose research-based principles for happiness aligned with biblical teachings.

• Which of these seven principles do you personally find most challenging to implement, and what makes it difficult?

How can we build healthy social connections in person when our culture increasingly pushes us toward digital relationships?

• The sermon referenced Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 about two being better than one and emphasized that isolation is an incubator for depression.

• What specific steps could you take this week to strengthen your in-person relationships with other believers?

Prayer 🙏

• Start by sharing any specific prayer requests or concerns within the group.

• Ask God for strength to stand firm in truth and biblical convictions, even when faced with societal challenges.

• Pray for a renewal of minds to help overcome anxiety and depression that many may face.

• Seek guidance for opportunities to exemplify kindness and build strong, healthy relationships in our communities.

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Rooted: Rooted in Christ - Your Firm Foundation

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Have you ever wondered what it truly means to stand firm when everything around you feels shaky? Pastor John Mark launches an eight-week journey exploring how to build an unshakeable spiritual foundation in turbulent times. Drawing from Colossians 2, he reveals that true stability starts with knowing your identity in Christ—not as someone defined by likes, job titles, or past struggles, but as God's chosen child. Through practical steps such as daily devotions, group connection, and cultivating gratitude, Pastor John Mark demonstrates how staying rooted in Jesus transforms anxiety into peace and uncertainty into purpose. Don't miss this timely message that will equip you to face life's challenges with unwavering faith. Watch or listen now to discover your firm foundation!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you were an ice cream flavor, which one would you be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

In Colossians 2:6-7, Paul emphasizes being 'rooted and built up in Christ.' What are some practical ways we can develop deeper spiritual roots in our daily lives?

• Pastor Caton explained that trees don't survive storms because they have a roof over their head, but because they have deep roots. He emphasized daily devotions, prayer, and consistent worship as ways to deepen one's spiritual growth.

• What specific spiritual practices could you commit to for the next 8 weeks to help develop deeper roots in your faith?

How does understanding our true identity in Christ (as described in 1 Peter 2:9) change how we view ourselves and live our daily lives?

• The sermon highlighted that believers are a chosen people, royal priesthood, holy nation, and God's special possession - not defined by job titles, past sins, or current struggles.

• Which aspects of your identity do you tend to focus on more - your earthly roles and achievements or your identity in Christ?

Pastor Caton discussed spiritual inertia, which can occur when one is at rest, in motion, or heading in the wrong direction. How can we recognize which state we're in and what steps can we take to move in the right direction?

• The sermon described how things in motion tend to stay in motion, and things at rest tend to remain at rest, unless acted upon by a stronger force.

• Looking at your spiritual life over the past few months, what kind of spiritual inertia would you say you've experienced?

The sermon emphasized the importance of gratitude and thankfulness. Why does Paul repeatedly mention thankfulness in Colossians 3:15-17, and how does gratitude impact our spiritual growth?

• Pastor Caton explained that gratitude reorients our mind away from what we lack and towards what we have.

• What are some specific things in your life that you need to be more intentionally thankful for?

How does the concept of 'remaining in Christ' (from John 15) relate to bearing spiritual fruit in our lives?

• The sermon emphasized that branches cannot bear fruit by themselves - they must remain connected to the vine, just as we must stay connected to Christ.

• What are some signs in your life that indicate whether you're staying connected to Christ or becoming disconnected?

Prayer 🙏

Let's start by sharing any prayer requests we have.

• Thank God for His faithfulness and the blessings He has provided.

• Ask God for the strength to stay committed to spiritual growth and to apply what we've learned in the sermon.

• Pray for guidance in building a deeper relationship with God and others in the group.

• Seek God's help in remaining thankful and rooted in His Word throughout the week.

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More Than Conquorers: God’s Love Guarantees Nothing Can Stop Us

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What if the greatest battle you're facing has already been won? In this powerful conclusion to the "More than a Conqueror" series, Pastor John Mark unveils the unshakeable truth from Romans 8 that nothing—no circumstance, person, or power—can separate believers from God's love. Through vivid stories like the prodigal son and David facing Goliath, he shows how God isn't neutral in our battles but actively fights for us. Drawing from Paul's own decades of trials, this message offers hope-filled assurance that we don't fight for victory, but from victory through Christ. Whether you're facing doubts or seeking security in your faith, discover why you're eternally secure in God's hands. Don't miss this transformative message about conquering life's challenges through His unstoppable love!

Ice Breaker 🧊

Would you rather live in the city, surrounded by people, or in the country, with no one around? Which one would you choose and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark explains that we 'fight from our victory, not for our victory' as Christians. What does this mean, and how does it change our perspective on facing life's challenges?

• The sermon emphasizes that we don't have to earn God's love or victory - we already have it through Christ. We are already adopted as sons and daughters of God.

• Think about a current struggle in your life - how would viewing it from a position of already having victory in Christ change your approach to that situation?

Looking at Romans 8:35-39, what types of circumstances does Paul say cannot separate us from God's love, and why is this significant for believers today?

• Paul lists trouble, hardship, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger, and sword as things that cannot separate us from God's love.

• What circumstances in your life have made you question God's love, and how does this passage address those doubts?

The sermon discusses the story of the Prodigal Son in relation to our security in Christ. How does this parable help us understand the difference between someone walking away temporarily versus never being saved?

• The pastor explains that the Prodigal Son was always the father's son, even when far away, and his return home proved his true identity.

• How can we maintain hope for loved ones who seem to have walked away from their faith?

Pastor discusses the 'w that attempt to separate us’ to separate us from God's love. What's the difference between these two categories, and why is it important to understand both?

• The sermon explains that 'who's' could be God, Satan, or ourselves, while 'what's' are circumstances and trials that make us doubt God's love.

• Which tends to challenge your faith more - specific people (who's) or difficult circumstances (what's)?

How does understanding that we are 'more than conquerors' (hypernikao) change how we view our daily struggles and challenges?

• The sermon explains that hypernikao means we don't just succeed, but succeed with success to spare - we 'run laps around Satan.'

• In what area of your life do you need to start viewing yourself as 'more than a conqueror' rather than just barely getting by?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests.

• Thank God for the assurance that nothing can separate us from His love.

• Pray for strength to fight from a place of victory, not for it.

• Ask for guidance in setting our minds on things of the Spirit throughout the week.

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More Than Conquerors: Our Hope Outlasts Our Hurts

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Have you ever wondered how God could possibly use your deepest hurts for good? Pastor John Mark delves into Romans 8, revealing how even our most painful moments can become powerful ingredients in God's master plan. Through vivid examples—from Joseph's journey from pit to palace to the transformative process of baking—he illuminates how God weaves both bitter and sweet experiences together for His purpose. Drawing from personal losses and universal struggles, Pastor John Mark shares how suffering shapes us into Christ's image, reminding us that "sometimes God allows what He hates to accomplish what He loves." Whether facing job loss, health challenges, or broken relationships, this message offers hope that our pain has purpose. Watch now to discover how your current trial could be the very ingredient God uses to create something beautiful in your life.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could instantly become an expert in any hobby without putting in the practice hours, which hobby would you choose and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Pastor John Mark used the analogy of baking ingredients to explain Romans 8:28. How does this analogy help us understand how God can work different experiences (both good and bad) together for good in our lives?

• The sermon explained how individual baking ingredients like flour, raw eggs, or baking powder don't taste good alone, but when combined, create something extraordinary - just as difficult experiences in our lives can be worked together by God for good.

• What challenging experience in your life initially seemed negative but later revealed itself to be part of God's larger purpose?

The sermon emphasized that God's primary goal for believers is not happiness but conformity to Christ's image. How does this perspective change the way we view difficult circumstances in our lives?

• Pastor John Mark stated, 'Sometimes God allows what he hates to accomplish what he loves' - explaining that God's ultimate purpose is to conform us to Christ's image, not just make us happy.

• In what ways have challenging times in your life helped shape you to be more like Christ?

Looking at Romans 8:28-30, what does it mean to be adopted into God's family, and how should this truth impact how we face difficulties?

• The sermon discussed how adoption in Roman culture meant both debt clearance and full inheritance rights, paralleling our spiritual adoption as God's children.

• How does knowing you're fully adopted as God's child change how you approach current challenges in your life?

How does Joseph's story, as mentioned in the sermon, illustrate the truth of Romans 8:28 about God working all things together for good?

• The sermon walked through Joseph's journey from the pit to Pharaoh's palace, showing how each difficult step was part of God's larger plan.

• Where in your life do you need to trust that God is working things together for good, even when you can't see the final outcome?

The sermon mentions that creation, God's children, and the Spirit all 'groan' while waiting for God's promises to be fulfilled. What does this tell us about suffering and hope in the Christian life?

• Pastor John Mark compared this groaning to childbirth pains, emphasizing that current suffering isn't forever and will lead to something beautiful.

• How can you maintain hope in your current struggles, knowing that God promises they are temporary and purposeful?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any personal prayer requests from the group.

• • Pray for understanding and acceptance that God can bring good out of painful situations as taught in the sermon.

• • Request God's guidance in helping us see the good in our struggles this week.

• • Ask God to help us trust in His plan and remain hopeful through life's challenges.

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More Than Conquerors: The Mindset of a Conqueror

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Are you ready to conquer the chaos of your mind? In his dynamic sermon, Pastor John Mark Caton unpacks the powerful concept of the conqueror's mindset, drawing from the rich truths in Romans chapter 8. He vividly portrays the internal struggle every believer faces between the desires of the flesh and the leading of the Spirit, echoing Paul's confession of his own battles. As Pastor Caton emphasizes, understanding this duality is crucial for living a victorious Christian life. He encourages us to embrace our identity in Christ, reminding us that while we are forgiven and free, we must actively choose to set our minds on the Spirit rather than the flesh, as this choice dictates our actions and emotions. Inviting the congregation to reflect, he uses relatable anecdotes, like the “bad roommate” analogy, illustrating how our flesh can mislead us. The sermon continues with a call to action, urging listeners to reboot their spiritual lives daily, seeking God’s guidance and renewing their minds. Join us in discovering how to live life to the fullest as more than conquerors in Christ. Watch or listen to the full message to transform your spiritual journey today!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could have any animal in the world as a pet, regardless of practicality, what would you choose and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to have a 'conqueror's mindset' according to Pastor's interpretation of Romans 8?

• Pastor talks about how our mindset can lead to either life and peace when we live according to the Spirit or death when the flesh governs us.

• Can you think of a time when your mindset influenced your actions positively or negatively? How did that affect your relationships with others?

In the sermon, Pastor mentions that we have three enemies: Satan, the world, and ourselves. Why do you think the biggest enemy often comes from within us?

• Pastor explains that we often are our own worst enemies due to our fleshly desires and inner struggles.

• Have you ever faced a situation where your own choices led to a negative outcome? What did you learn from that experience?

Pastor references Romans 8:1, which states there is no condemnation for those in Christ. How does this verse affect your understanding of forgiveness?

• Pastor emphasizes that being in Christ means we are forgiven and free from condemnation, which changes our identity as believers.

• How does knowing you are not condemned influence the way you approach your mistakes or faults? Do you find it easier or harder to forgive yourself?

What practical steps can we take to 'set our minds on the Spirit' as Pastor suggested in Romans 12:2?

• Pastor encouraged the need to transform our thoughts through godly content, such as worship and studying the Bible.

• What are some specific things you can do in your daily routine to keep your mind focused on things that honor God?

Why is it important to be aware of the 'war within' between the flesh and the spirit, as discussed by Pastor?

• Pastor highlights that understanding this internal struggle can help us make better choices and live more fulfilling lives.

• How can recognizing this 'war within' affect your choices and relationships this week? Can you commit to being more mindful of it?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask God to help you recognize the battles between the flesh and the spirit in your life.
• Pray for strength to choose the mindset of the spirit throughout the week.
• Request guidance for applying the lessons from the sermon in daily situations.
• Share any additional prayer requests from the group.

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More Than Conquerors: Living Free in a Guilty World

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Are you feeling the weight of guilt in a world that often feels heavy with condemnation? In his powerful message, Pastor explores the profound truth found in Romans chapter 8, unveiling it as the spiritual mountaintop that reassures us: "Guilty, yes; condemned, never." This chapter embodies the essence of God’s grace and the hope we have through Jesus, reminding us that while we all fall short, we are not defined by our failures. Over the next few weeks in the series "More Than Conquerors," Pastor John Mark takes us deeper into the richness of Romans 8, highlighting that our struggles don't make us losers but rather more than conquerors through Him who loves us. He invites you to read the chapter and allows its transformative truths to resonate in your life. This message is not just an encouragement but a call to embrace the freedom available to those who are in Christ. Join us as we learn to live free from guilt and condemnation, and discover the immense love that God has for each one of us. Don't miss the chance to dive into this uplifting sermon and embrace the liberating message of grace!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, but it had to be a food that starts with the letter 'P', what would it be?

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to be 'more than conquerors' as described in Romans 8:37, and how can this idea help us face challenges in our lives?

• Pastor explained that being more than conquerors means we can overcome difficulties through our faith in Christ, despite facing struggles.

• Can you think of a personal challenge you've faced and how your faith helped you to overcome it or change your perspective on it?

In the sermon, Pastor mentioned, 'There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ' (Romans 8:1). How does understanding this affect your view of mistakes or failures?

• This verse emphasizes that even though we may feel guilty, we are not condemned because of our faith in Christ.

• Have you ever experienced a time when you felt guilty for something you did? How did you move past that feeling, or what steps could you take now to embrace the idea of no condemnation?

Pastor discussed the concept of different camps in climbing Mount Everest as a metaphor for our spiritual journey. Why do you think it's important to acknowledge that we must 'train' in our faith?

• The pastor used the climbing example to show that just like mountaineers prepare for their journey, we too need to prepare and grow in our faith.

• What are some practical ways you can train or grow in your faith this week?

How does understanding that 'everybody needs the gospel' change the way we interact with others, especially those who may not be believers?

• Pastor emphasized that everyone is in need of salvation and grace, reminding us that we all have fallen short in some way.

• How can you show grace and love to someone this week who may not share your beliefs or who is struggling?

Pastor said that while we were still sinners, God demonstrated His love by sending Jesus to die for us (Romans 5:8). How does this idea of God’s proactive love impact your understanding of personal worth?

• This statement highlights that God’s love is given freely to us, irrespective of our shortcomings or mistakes.

• How can you remind yourself of your worth in God's eyes when you encounter feelings of inadequacy or unworthiness?

Prayer 🙏

• Pray for the courage to live as more than conquerors in our daily lives.
• Ask God to help us apply the teachings from Romans chapter 8 throughout the week.
• Lift up any personal prayer requests and seek God’s guidance in our lives.
• Pray for strength to support one another as we grow in faith together.

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Unusual Suspects: John the Baptist - Prepare the Way

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What if the key to fulfilling your purpose isn't in your credentials or qualifications, but in the sincerity of your heart? In this week's compelling message, Pastor John Mark Caton continues the "Unusual Suspects" series, highlighting prophets throughout Scripture whom God chose not for their resumes, but for their commitment. A focal point is John the Baptist, an extraordinary figure with a rugged lifestyle and a simple yet powerful message: "Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near!" John embodies the theme that God uses the most unlikely people to achieve His divine plans—reminding us that the past, filled with sin and doubt, does not disqualify us from His purpose. As Pastor John Mark shares how John the Baptist pointed to Jesus as the "Lamb of God," he encourages us to recognize our role in directing others toward Christ. This message resonates deeply with anyone feeling lost or overlooked in their spiritual journey. Tune in to learn how you can embrace your heart for God and fulfill your calling by sharing His love with the world. Take action now and engage with this powerful lesson; your journey begins today!

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you had to choose between living in the scalding desert or the subzero Arctic, which would you choose and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

Why do you think Pastor emphasized that John the Baptist is not the message but rather the messenger? How can this distinction help us understand our own roles in sharing our faith?

• Pastor explained that John the Baptist served as the microphone for Jesus's message, emphasizing that he was not the focus but rather the one pointing to the message.

• In what ways do you currently share your faith, and how can you ensure that your focus remains on Jesus rather than on yourself?

Reflect on the idea of repentance as presented by Pastor. How does John the Baptist's call to 'repent for the kingdom of heaven has come near' apply to our lives today?

• Pastor shared that John the Baptist’s message was about the need for repentance, highlighting that there are no participation trophies in the kingdom of God.

• What areas of your life do you feel you need to repent or change to better align with God's will?

Pastor mentioned that Jesus referred to John the Baptist as 'the greatest man born of woman.' What qualities do you think led Jesus to make this statement about John?

• Pastor referenced how Jesus regarded John the Baptist highly, noting his unique role and unwavering commitment to his mission.

• What qualities do you admire in people you consider great, and how can you cultivate similar qualities in your own life?

How does the historical context that Pastor provided—such as the 400 silent years—help us understand the significance of John's ministry when he finally arrived on the scene?

• Pastor discussed the silence between the Old and New Testaments and how God was still working behind the scenes, preparing the way for John and Jesus.

• In your life, have you experienced times where it felt like God was silent? How did you cope with those periods, and what did you learn from them?

What does it mean to you personally to 'make straight the way for the Lord' in your everyday life?

• Pastor emphasized that John’s mission was to prepare the people for Jesus's arrival, prompting us also to prepare others to meet Jesus.

• What practical steps can you take this week to help others encounter Jesus in your school, community, or circle of friends?

Prayer 🙏

• Share any prayer requests within the group.
• Ask God to help us recognize the unusual ways He calls us to serve Him in our lives.
• Pray for courage to repent and turn towards God in our daily actions.
• Ask for wisdom to point others towards Jesus, just as John the Baptist did.

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Unusual Suspects: Deborah - Courage in a Time of Cowardice

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Have you ever felt like an unlikely hero in your own story? In Pastor John Mark’s sermon, he takes us on a captivating journey through the life of Deborah—a powerful prophetess and judge in Israel who defied the odds to lead a nation out of oppression. Drawing from Judges 4 and 5, Pastor John Mark emphasizes that God isn’t concerned with our resumes; He’s looking for hearts willing to say "yes" to His call. As Deborah confronts the spiritual apathy of her people, she calls forth Barak—an army leader hesitant to act—urging him to step into the battle against the Canaanites. With clarity and courage, she inspires others to move beyond passive faith into action, demonstrating that true leaders don’t wait for an invitation; they lead with God’s strength behind them. The message resonates deeply with our own lives, urging us to reflect on whether we will step up and lead in our communities. Pastor John Mark's stirring conclusion invites each listener to engage actively in their faith and endeavors, challenging us to show up when it matters most. Don't miss the whole sermon—be inspired to be a part of God’s transformative work today!

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is one thing that you are grateful for this week and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

What can we learn from Deborah's role as a leader in Israel, and why is it vital that she listened to God's word before taking action?

• Deborah was a prophetess and judge in Israel who listened for God's instructions and acted upon them. This highlights the importance of seeking guidance from God before making decisions.

• How can you make it a practice in your daily life to seek God's guidance before taking action on decisions or challenges you face?

Barak showed reluctance to lead without Deborah's presence. What does this say about the importance of support and encouragement in leadership?

• Barak needed Deborah to go with him to face the enemy, indicating that sometimes leaders need encouragement and support to step out in faith.

• Can you think of a time when you needed support to take a step forward? How can you provide support to others in their journey?

Reflecting on Judges 4:1, why do you think the cycle of sin and repentance happened repeatedly among the Israelites?

• The Israelites would turn away from God, face oppression, cry out for help, and then God would forgive them, showing a cycle of rebellion and redemption.

• In your own life, can you identify any cycles of behavior where you struggle to stay aligned with what you know is right? How can you break those cycles?

Deborah praised God for the victory after the battle. Why is it essential to recognize and give thanks for our achievements?

• Deborah and Barak sang a song of praise after their victory to honor God for His intervention and support during their battle.

• How can you practice gratitude in your life? What are some specific ways to acknowledge and thank God for the victories, big or small?

What do you think the story of Jael implies about God’s ability to use unexpected people to fulfill His plans?

• Jael was not an Israelite but played a crucial role in defeating Sisera, showing that God often chooses unlikely suspects to achieve His purposes.

• Have you ever felt unqualified to serve or make a difference? How can you overcome those feelings and be open to God using you in unexpected ways?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests within the group.
• Pray for courage to step out in faith and act on what God is calling each person to do.
• Seek guidance in overcoming spiritual apathy in our lives.
• Ask God to help us grow in wisdom and integrity, following his word.

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Unusual Suspects: Ruth - From Brokenness to Blessing

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Have you ever found yourself in a season of profound loss, wondering if hope is even a possibility? Pastor John Mark Caton dives into the remarkable story of Ruth to illustrate that even in the depths of grief, there is a path to redemption and new beginnings. Through Ruth's journey from a Moabite widow to an ancestor of David and Jesus, we see the incredible truth that a broken start doesn’t have to lead to a bitter end. Pastor Caton emphasizes that our losses, whether it be the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, or the loss of dreams, resonate deeply within the pages of the Bible. Drawing on the strength of shared experiences, he encourages the congregation to reject bad advice, choose the right path, and lean into community support as they navigate their grief. By entrusting our struggles to God and remaining faithful in the ordinary, we are reminded that bold risks can unlock divine rewards. Join us in embracing this powerful message of hope and healing. Watch or listen to the whole sermon to discover how God can transform your pain into purpose.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could master one skill or ability, what would it be?

Discussion Questions 💬

In the story of Ruth, how does Ruth's commitment to Naomi demonstrate the importance of community during challenging times?

• Ruth refuses to leave Naomi and vows to stay with her, showing the power of loyalty and support.

• Can you think of a time when you needed someone to support you? How did that support impact your situation?

What does the phrase 'A broken start doesn't mean a bitter end' mean to you based on Ruth's story?

• Pastor discusses how Ruth went from a place of loss to becoming part of the lineage of Jesus, showing that beginnings can be hard but can lead to good outcomes.

• Have you experienced a situation in your life where you started off feeling defeated but later found success? What lessons did you learn from that experience?

How can we reject bad advice during our difficult times, as Ruth did when Naomi suggested she stay in Moab?

• Pastor mentions that Ruth chooses to follow Naomi and God's path instead of settling for bad advice.

• Think of a time when you received advice that wasn't helpful. What were the consequences, and how would you handle it differently now?

In chapter two, Ruth goes to glean in the fields. Why is it significant that she chooses to work hard during this time of grief?

• Pastor points out that God often blesses us in ordinary situations, and Ruth's work in the fields is where she starts to receive God's blessings.

• What are some ordinary activities you can engage in to find purpose or healing during a tough time in your life?

What does the story of Boaz illustrate about generosity and kindness towards others?

• Pastor emphasizes how Boaz's decision to leave margins in his fields allowed Ruth to glean, showing kindness to those in need.

• In what ways can you show kindness and generosity to those around you, especially those who are going through hardships?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.

• Pray for those dealing with loss to find strength and hope in the coming week.

• Ask God for guidance in applying the principles of resilience and support from the sermon.

• Pray for opportunities to help others who are experiencing loss.

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Unusual Suspects: David - A Man After God’s Own Heart

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On Father's Day, Pastor emphasized the importance of recognizing and celebrating fathers while contrasting the lives of Saul and David to illustrate leadership qualities. Despite his impressive appearance, he shared that Saul failed because he lacked a heart for God, while David, the overlooked shepherd, was chosen for his authentic heart. The sermon highlighted that God seeks those willing to serve Him wholeheartedly, focusing on faith, patience, and humility rather than on external qualities or past failures. Ultimately, Pastor encouraged everyone, especially fathers, to strive for a heart that prioritizes worship, seeks God’s purpose, and impacts the next generation positively.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only drink one soda for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

How can we, like David, build altars to God in our lives instead of focusing on ourselves?

• The sermon talks about the difference between two kings: Saul, who built altars to himself, and David, who focused on honoring God.

• What practical ways can you shift your focus from yourself to serving and honoring God and others in your community?

What does being a man or person after God’s heart mean, and how can we strive to be more like David daily?

• The sermon highlights that God is looking for hearts, not resumes, as mentioned when describing David as a man after God's own heart.

• Can you think of a specific situation where you can show a heart for God this week? How might that change how you act?

In what ways did Saul demonstrate a lack of follow-through in his leadership, and how can we avoid making the same mistakes in our lives?

• The speaker compares Saul's potential and lack of follow-through with David's commitment and heart for God.

• Reflect on a goal you have set for yourself that you've struggled to follow through with. What can you do to improve your commitment to that goal?

How does waiting on God's timing, as shown through David's experiences, challenge our desire for immediate results in life?

• The sermon discusses David's patience while waiting to become king, emphasizing that God's timing often differs from ours.

• Have you ever waited for something in your life? How did that experience shape your understanding of patience or faith?

What does David's response to his sin and his willingness to confess teach us about the importance of humility in our own lives?

• David admitted his wrongdoing to Nathan and recognized his failures, showing the importance of coming clean about our mistakes.

• Think about a time you needed to admit you were wrong. How did that experience impact your relationships with others?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any prayer requests from the group.
• Pray for the courage to take action on God’s call in our lives.
• Seek guidance to be men after God’s own heart.
• Request strength to influence the next generation positively.

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Unusual Suspects: Esther - For Such a Time as This

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Pastor John Mark Caton discusses the story of Esther, an orphan who rises to become queen in Persia, demonstrating how God uses unlikely individuals for His purposes. He emphasizes that God values the heart over personal qualifications and that one’s history does not dictate their destiny. The sermon encourages listeners to have courage in their faith, reminding them that they may face opposition when standing firm in their beliefs. Ultimately, the message highlights that each person has a unique purpose and can make a significant impact by being faithful and willing to bless others.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only sleep on a bed made of hay or feathers, which one would it be and why?

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to you that God uses 'unusual suspects' in His plans, as Esther's story highlights?

• Pastor discussed how Esther, an orphan, became a queen and played a crucial role in saving her people, showing that God does not rely on traditional qualifications.

• Can you think of a time in your life when you felt unqualified but still succeeded at something important? How did that experience shape your faith?

How can we expect pushback when we stand firm in our beliefs, similar to Mordecai not bowing to Haman?

• Pastor mentioned that Mordecai's refusal to honor Haman led to significant consequences for himself and his people.

• Have you ever faced pressure to compromise your values? Share your experience and discuss how you responded.

What role does prayer play in making tough decisions, as Esther showed by asking her people to fast and pray?

• Pastor highlighted that Esther prepared to approach the king with courage after seeking God's guidance through fasting and prayer.

• What practices do you have in place to seek God's guidance when facing important choices in your life?

In what ways did God's plan unfold throughout Esther’s story, and how does this relate to the idea that our history does not determine our destiny?

• Pastor explained that despite their difficult pasts, both Esther and Mordecai achieved significant roles in saving their people, emphasizing that God has a purpose for everyone.

• Reflect on a personal challenge you have faced. How can you see God’s hand leading you toward a greater purpose in that situation?

How does the story of Esther encourage us to recognize and use our unique gifts to help others?

• Pastor noted that Esther used her position as queen to advocate for her people, showing how we can use our own abilities to serve others.

• What specific gifts or talents do you possess, and how can you use them to positively impact your community?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.

• Pray for God to help us recognize our purpose in our current situation.

• Ask God to give us the courage to stand firm in our faith.

• Pray for opportunities to bless others in our lives this week.

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